Rome with a toddler - a documentary family travel story
Travelling to Rome with a toddler is not something most people describe as relaxing, but it was one of our favourite trips as a family. We visited Rome with our 18 month old and approached it slowly, documenting real moments rather than trying to see everything. This post is a documentary family travel story about navigating flights, heat, food and long walks through Rome with a toddler in tow.
Rome with an 18 month old felt like a bold choice. Busy, hot, loud, full of people and history and steps everywhere. But it’s also full of life, and that’s exactly what I wanted to photograph.
Flying to Rome with a toddler
The flight was actually fine. Better than fine, honestly. It’s short, which helps, and we went armed with snacks, snacks and more snacks. A few books, a few distractions, a lot of sharing food and suddenly we were there. I went in expecting chaos and got calm. A good reminder that sometimes the worry beforehand is worse than the thing itself.
The heat though. The heat was real.
Rome with an 18 month old
One day it nudged close to 40 degrees and you could feel it radiating off the pavements. Percy was sweaty, we were all sweaty, everyone was shiny. It’s probably not a city I’d rush back to in August with a toddler, if I’m being completely honest. We went in October before and it was much more bearable. But even with the heat, it was still beautiful. Slower, yes. More breaks. More shade hunting. But still lovely in that hazy, sun soaked way.
We lived on pizza, pasta and coffee. Proper coffee. The kind that makes you wonder why you ever drink it anywhere else. There’s something very comforting about food in Italy, especially when travelling with a small child. Simple dishes, no fuss, eaten late, often standing or squeezed around tiny tables. Percy was more than happy with endless bits of pizza and pasta, and so were we. We walked everywhere. And I mean everywhere. We didn't bother with public transport.
Is Rome with a toddler a good idea?
I forgot just how walkable Rome is until you’re pushing a buggy down cobbled streets and then watching your toddler insist on walking it himself. He did so much walking. Tiny legs keeping up, stopping to point at scooters, fountains, dogs, pigeons. We slowed down naturally, because you have to. You don’t rush a toddler through a city like Rome. You let them set the pace, and in doing that you notice more.
The looks he got were one of my favourite parts.
Little old ladies, proper Roman Nonnas, stopping to smile at him, chat to him, touch his cheeks, tell him how 'Bellisimo' he was. Language didn’t matter. There’s something incredibly soft about watching strangers show such warmth to your child, especially in a city that can feel so grand and overwhelming.
This trip wasn’t about ticking off landmarks. We saw them, of course, but mostly in passing. A corner of a building here, a glimpse of something ancient there. What mattered more were the moments in between. Him walking ahead of us down a sunlit street. The way he clutched his dummies. The way the light fell in the afternoons. The quiet moments inside cafés when the noise dropped for a second.
That’s always what draws me to family photography. Not perfection. Not posed moments. Just real life unfolding. Travelling with a toddler strips everything back. You carry more. You plan less. You react more. And in doing that, you end up with memories that feel honest and full. Rome gave us that, even in the heat, even with tired legs.
These photos aren’t a guide to Rome. They’re just our little story of it.